I don't want to sound mean or like a jerk. However, If your going to invite me to be on your friends list PLEASE do me the favor of explaining WHY. I already have a number of varied friends. I have personal reasons (that are extremely important for my safety)as to why I will not accept an invite from people that I just simply do not know. In the past 3 Days I have gotten several plain invites. I don't know how to make it any clearer. I love making new friends. However. I don't want to be a number on someones page. I also want to make sure that the people that I am friends with i at least have something in common with.
I am not looking to be anyones Girlfriend(I am quiet happily married).
Anyhow Please do me the curtousy of explaining WHY you would like to be my contact.
Thank you Mistical
 | I don't understand the random or plain invite myself. I have never accepted one... though I do, if there's at least an avatar, go check them out. Basically if they're not connected to someone I know, I decline. Safety IS a number one priority here. :-) |
 | cowers in corner from angry frustrated faerie.... |
 | no not angry.. .. just trying to explain what I expect. I belong to few art groups and I get invites from there.. but I also get some from random people.. |
| hides under car cover..yeah ok i understand.... |
| wait pokey...jump in i'll drive.... |
| why are you running away pokey? |
| Oh noooo... *flies off after Pokey* |
 | yes. that is how Drägön feels too. about the invites. ♥♥ |
 | Generic invites will consume us all! |
 | so... do i need to explain again? i forgot what i wrote the first time... ~smile~ |
| no this is actually one of the few blogs I have for the public |
 | I can't understand the random or plain invites either, if you're going to be a friend of somoen, at least spice it up a bit!! |
 | yeah... I never get those random invites...
oh well... maybe once in a blue blue moon I get them, but that would be only a very blue one
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| oh what the heck, I've only gotten one invite that I can think of... LOL
I usually do the asking, and I try to spice it up a bit... let them know why I want to be their contact
after all... there should be a proper introduction to these things
remember way back in the day when you wouldn't even speak to someone unless you'd been "properly introduced"? |
| that is exactly how I feel You should introduce yourself.. |
| I think we should at least have had some conversation or SOMETHING before I will accept an invite. and even then I might not. I am picky. |
| If I invite someone, I'm going to make the invite worth reading |
| hello...my name is Anne....i live in the USA in the confused state of Pennsylvania...i'm a freed mother of 2 children, 20 and 16 and have been known to break out in song or melencholy, depending on my makebelieve comsumption of Rum...i'm of scottish decent but have been known to cause an uprising here and ther, after all i do have 2 children.......
how's that???? |
| well thank god cause i'm already here...LOL |
| hmm... I hafta give a reason to be Mystic's friend... ok.
Drägön bite meen peeple for Mystic. Drägön not bite Mystic. Drägön give Mystic Chocolate and play fun games too. Drägön promise not to pee on the carpet. |
| LOL OK those on my friends list are all set. |
| hmmm, I need a reason now:
I might be young, but I'm a fun and energetic person to be about, it's never a dull moment with me. I am understanding and care deeply for my friends. Their well-being is of upmost important to me.
if I can do anythig to make you laugh, I will |
| LOL@ Dragon not peeing on carpet. *claps* |
| pats dragons paw...berry good for being house broken.... |
| ya;ll are a bunch of smart butts |
| but we're your smart butts |
| AND we are butt smart with all these puppies running around... |
 | I'll stand guard over your mailbox with my bow and arrow and keep an eye out for loonies, but this bunch above me that's answered is good people. |
| smart butt? naw... I'm a smartass. :D |
| High Five, Dragon! Me too! |
| woohoo!!
*high fives balavan* |
| One thing about it though,, when we do get invites, even if we don't know who they are, we can go snoop around on their page and have a look at what's over there. Sometimes you can get an inkling of what the person is like that way. |
| I will generally do that, just to see. |
| balavan...you voyeur...LOL |
| Well shoot,Caddy it might be Johnny Depp sendin' that invite and I gotta make sure right? *snickers* |
| point well taken...LOL.... |
 | i hear you, i just started clicking on decline if it's not a name i've already ran across |
| I like it when peopel write *Snickers* down, it looks good, and makes me smile |
| I think of the candy bar with 'snickers" |
| balavan wrote on Apr 8, edited on Apr 8 I got one invite right after I joined Multiply from some guy. I went over and snooped on his page, cause to be honest I only knew a couple of people. So anyway I snooped on this guy's page and from what I could tell, he was into s&m and b&d and I thought, 'Bubba go mess with your own granny. I'll pass, thank ye kindly.' So I declined. And no I ain't a prude, but Maddie sit's on my lap sometimes when I'm writing in guest books or just reading things on my friends pages and that was one page I was going to make sure she didn't see. |
| I didn't know you got them over there, Misty! Shows what i know |
| *snickers* I does not like Snickers the candy bar. |
| Snickers and anything else in a wrapper is good for you. Especially after you sit at the computer from between 7 a.m. and 2 a.m. It gives you that sugar rush burst that you need to get through the day. |
| HURRAH SUGAR...grabs box of rock candy...crunch |
| uh oh... not the rock candy!
*ducks* |
| Snickers, Mounds Bars, Tootsie Rolls, Ding Dongs, Twinkies and Chese Popcorn. and coffee. The Seven Basic Food Groups. |
| LOL....its ok..i need the energy anyway |
| *comes out of hiding*
Oh okay... if it's for medicinal purposes. ;-) |
| I like... um... M&Ms. and Twix. and Reeses. |
| balavan wrote on Apr 8, edited on Apr 8 I can do the M&Ms, but the other two I can't. |
| M7M???? new candy???? i want some pleese....LOL |
| M&Ms and KitKats please. :-) |
| *wails hysterically* I meant M&Ms, but the keyboard is possessed! |
| LOL i was just kiddin there balavan...relax....hands large bag of M&M's to her |
| Thank you. *looks in bag* Green...ohhh green. Must have green M&Ms |
| ooooooorange M&Ms pleeeeeese. |
| *hands Dragon the bag* Have some. There's plenty. |
| yay!! thank you.
*eets M&Ms* |
| thanks.. i love them.. want some jelly beans? |
| hands out some jelly bellies... |
 | Aw that's nice.. I don't get hardly any invites. wahhhhh I wonder if I come off as a bit too mysterious. I like anything mystical, when I try to remember who invited who. I am at a complete loss, you just seem to be an old friend I have gotten to know like a neighbor in my community.
I understand completely about being a number I deleted quite a few that I didn't have anything in common with or that I never seen around, for me having a history of some sort is very important.. like my friend food dude though he is never around, he reached out in his time of pain from losing his pet. I just adore people that I get to know somehow.
About me, I am now officially 36 and 2 days hehehe, 4 kids, a freethinker and I like to look for all the wonderful things in life. I am American living in Egypt for the past 11 years and Multiply is the place where I have all my friends. I am bit of a loner, but once you have won me over I am always loyal.
I hope that gives you some information about me. :D Where's the teeth on these smiley faces??? hahaha |
 | cannmcd wrote on Apr 8, edited on Apr 8 Well now that I am your contact misty I can comment on random invites! lol It was refreshing to get an invite from you....someone I've already talked to at length! I don't understand people that haven't even had any kind of conversation with you. I thinks they likes my puppers picture. |
| you shoulda been able to comment on this one before cause this one was set up for public view the others are almost always set up for contacts or network only.. I have a huge issue with privacy for certain reasons |
| Oh and here are some M&Ms  |
| I understand. I have all the photos of myself, my daughter and other family members set to "contacts only" |
 | Oh, you Big Meanie! LOL. Just kidding! Generic doesn't fly with me, either. |
 | Hi! I am from the state of Johor which is inside the federation of Malaysia!
Have a nice day to you!:-) |
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I love making new friends. However. I don't want to be a number on someones page. I also want to make sure that the people that I am friends with i at least have something in common with. 
